The “Corner Lounger in Church” and unexpected serendipity

As a single, independent woman with no children and many friends, I almost tune everything out and focus on Jesus when I am at church. Nothing is required of me except penitence, asking for forgiveness and extending kindness where welcomed or needed.  This Sunday, I sat in my usual back bench (non-reserved). Typically, I sit close to the aisle for logistical reasons. Sitting close to the aisle is an easy out if I suddenly don't feel good.

During the homily, this adorable family walked in and needed a place to seat eight people-parents, aunt, and a few kiddos ; ). Their kids acted well behaved. I admired the parental discipline as their kids just seemed to know the consequences should they step out of line. Admittedly. I felt lonesome by myself (although there were plenty of other folks with gaps in their benches). None of my local friends practice Catholicism, so I often sit alone.

Their mother profusely apologized for the interruption. Rest assured, she had nothing to apologize for. I welcomed her and was thrilled to sit next to such a warm, friendly crew. I genuinely wished her a happy Mother's Day. Not a mom, myself, I can appreciate guiding multiple children around. (I teach school and love my kids, even the tough ones.)

This mom has a beautiful face, smile, and sounded articulate. Her kids showed affection toward each other. The experience of sitting next to this family warmed my heart and served as a Christlike witness to my heart that so many people work hard at the classical ethical, even sustainable things in life.

It was doughnut Sunday at mass. I offered my doughnut to her sweet, well-behaved boys. (I don't need a doughnut on my waistline for a while.)

The homily, as always was excellent. I hope that I get to hear Fr. Paul's homily again. Strangely, the homilies at this parish touch on global human problems, such as illness, loneliness, unemployment, etc. They are relatable in how they are expressed. I always leave this parish knowing that I save myself hundreds of dollars a week in therapy. All the aspects I require from a religious construct are listed below next to "+".

+ I need a reminder that I need to work on things and can be forgiven by taking accountability and changing my ways.

+I am enough with Jesus' mercy.

+ I should actively look for opportunities to serve.

+ I am loved by my Savior and all things can be accomplished through him.

At the end of Mass, my new Mom friend said, "I have to hug you and Thank you." I gave her a big hug and listened and talked and left. Hopefully, I see her again. I guess I was supposed to be the corner lounger.

Then, I celebrated my own motherhood (mother of Jack Sparrow naughty pants) by drinking a dirty Chai. (I did see my Spice Girl buddy.)

My prayers for continuous serendipity are answered, regularly it seems. While an open person, I don't share absolutely everything that goes on in my life, as not everything is worth mentioning. I have challenges like everyone else, but I do not focus on the drudgery-nor do I care to detail out agony. Life is too short for anything beside gifts of serendipity, as was aforementioned and related in the previous paragraphs.

Thank you, God. My classmates from college prayed I would find a church home and our collective prayers have been answered.